I’ve heard people in interviews, on stage, and even behind the pulpit use the phrase “being honest” or the word “honestly” before speaking. The first thing that comes to mind when someone says they are being honest is that normally they are not honest.
Unless what they are about to say is unbelievable, why would anyone point out the fact that they are being honest or speaking honestly? Okay, I know that phrase can mean that what is said next is sincere or candid and straightforward so why not use those words or even “being transparent.”
I feel the same way when someone starts a statement with “truthfully.” As followers of Christ, who is the Truth, we should be honest and speak the truth in love. Our God hates lying lips. So we should not say things that might dishonor Him.
Am I reverting to my legalistic self with this by getting upset over a little thing?
Prayer
Almighty God in heaven,
Thank You for giving us Your Holy Spirit so that we can follow Jesus, the Truth. Help us to speak the truth in love so that what we say brings more people to You. May our words bring you glory.
In Jesus’ name, Amen
Verses
Colossians 3:9 Do not lie to one another
John 14:6 Jesus said, “I am the way, the truth, and the life.”
Ephesian 4:15 Speak the truth in love
Proverbs 6:16-17 These are the things the Lord hates, haughty eyes, lying tongue
Psalms 34:13 Don’t speak evil words or speak deception
Leviticus 19:11 You must not tell lies
Song
“If We’re Honest” by Francesca Battistelli reminds us why we should be honest. I was going to choose another song by Matthew West but I wanted to choose another artist I enjoy listening to.
Call To Action
If you have already prayed, looked up the verses in your Bible, and listened to the suggested song, then pay attention when speakers preface what they say with words or phrases as above and let me know that it is a common thing.